How many times have you asked yourself “what’s wrong with me?
Why can’t I have a baby?
Am I too old? I’m over 40”
Well the answer is yes you can get pregnant and be over 40.
When you have been trying to have a baby and can’t, there is a lot of anger, disappointment, anger at your body for letting you down, anger at the world and even anger at each other.Then you try the “I'm not trying to get pregnant” approach but this doesn't work either. You are ready to pull your hair out.You have spent a lot of money on IVF and other fertility drugs, but still nothing.
Sometimes you need to take a step back,I know this is easy for me sitting here writing this. You are like WHAT take a step back!!! But yes sometimes you need to totally rethink everything.
You need to get your mind and body as healthy as you can. You need to take back the control. Instead of thinking “why can’t I get pregnant” start thinking “when I'm pregnant. You start visualizing your baby. Feel your baby in your arms, feel the weight, smell the smell of your baby's skin, let yourself smile and feel happy, you are allowed to do this. When you do this you have a huge mindset shift and this becomes your point of attraction. Do it every day, let yourself daydream about your baby. Plan your life with your baby, what you are going to wear when you get pregnant and your pregnant belly swells with your baby. Plan the colour of the nursery. Be happy when you see a pregnant lady, of the miracle that has happened to her, this is going to happen to you. When you are in the right mindset it is easy to succeed!
Don’t be afraid to picture success. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you’re going to set yourself up for disappointment. These thoughts may be keeping you from the very thing you want so much. You can create what you want in your life whether it’s having a baby, or anything else. What do you have to lose by picturing your success? You may say to yourself that you don't want to get your hopes up just to fail over and over again, but your chances of success are so much greater when your mind is on board with your conscious desires. Start with a clean slate. Wipe your past failures from your mind and start a new way of thinking...